Journal Writing 2 - Abel Goh

Oh.... I'm the 1st to post this topic? allrites! ...abel so lame rite? okok, no more crap....


okok, who are my best friends? I don't really know.... it's just basically friends, perhaps i still need more time to know my friends.... Those I trust either left or either lost contact and i think they had long forgotten about this 'abel'.... Those 'best friends' i had( wonder if i really have or not) simply wanted ur accompany for their own sake , they wanted entertainment , they demand for it, they will always crictise you , making u feel bad and outcasted....


shuts.... should be talking about best friends right? hahhaa... Since i have none, will just say about friends then.... My friends are around me... my classmates, schoolmates , church friends.... teachers almost everyone that i have contact with. They're all either chinese or malay. Hmmm, the question asks why... how i know??? does race matters ? I don't think we should choose our friends judging by the race.


I don't know... sometimes i thought to myself, wads the difference between 'best friend' and 'friend' . The main difference is one contains the word 'best'. Meaning you like that friend around you, the person that you wana share your joy and problems with. They are people you think you can trust the most.


Maybe i do really have best friends, i think it's just that i did not went deeper into the friendship.

Here comes the part 2!

1.Character

I think this is the most important among the 5. Who will want to have a good for nothing friend? someone who make use of you? Always claiming other people's credit, pushing blame to other ppl. Err, i dont mean ' SAY NO TO BAD FRENS! SAY NO!' ... Our friendships should have a balance mix of both the good frens and the bad frens.....why is this so?


Friends with bad character played quite an important role in our lives. They will cause trouble in your life, adding interesting chapters into your life. We will be able to cope with the different types of problems next time in the future as we had experiences like these before and we will be able to solve problems caused by them.


Friends with good character helps us all the time. They let us know that there will always be someone behind giving support, they help you out when you fell. They also add wonderful chapters into our lives, happy memories. and all the good stuffs...


Saying all these, i have to make a clear statement, no friend in the world is bad. rmb tt.

2. Circumstances


Second most important....classmates,groupmate and cca-mate... Why do i have to befriend a person in clz? grp? in cca? Why? It's important as we need friends to work with , like in class, a group or in cca... we need friends, colleauges* ( donoe the spelling) ... without making friends... we'll have a hard time ... left out, alone... nobody to work with.....[ i don't really know what to write, sry]


3.Age

It's best to befriend with people with age same as you because they are in the same generation as you, they know what you are going through, while those older or younger don't, due to the generation gap and mind perspectives.


4.Gender

It's not very important as the others coz the main thing is friend, guy or girl doesn't matters... though both sexes can give u different types of support.
Girls- They will always listen to you, offer help, cheer for you while...
Guys- Morale support, they give you support differently from the girls, they don't really cheer, but crictise you abit to motivate you to do even harder...
that's what i think....

Lastly,5. Race.

As mentioned before, RACE DOES NOT MATTER! Friendship can be found in any race, its not a must for a chinese to befriend a chinese... Sometimes, friends different from your race can even give you more motivation....

ALL THIS 5POINTS i did not describe it very detailed.

Part 3! finally i can sleep after doing this.

Yes, i think Racial Harmony served its purpose. The event in school helped us learn more about different food from different races.... i can see that alot of people were happy on that day... tts all i gotta say? hahaha, sry for not giving a detailed post.

allrites! I'm done! woots.