Should you lend you to a friend?
If we talk about minor things, I would lend it to them. I wouldn't lend my stuff to them unless they ask it from me. Because I feel that it is rude if you don't ask for permission to take someone's belonging. Sometimes friends ask to borrow them things that they might not have, it's best to lend it to them. Best to help them. If you mention about personal items such as handphones and stuff, I wouldn't really trust the person even if he/she is my best friend. I feel that it's my personal stuff that I don't wish other people to use my personal stuff. Another thing is, if my friend needs help in some problem he/she is having, I would try to help without a second thought. The reason is because if I can help in things that I am capable of handling, I would do my best to solve my friend's problem. For example, if my friend has difficulties in his/her studies, I would try to teach him/her to do that sum.
There are always pros and cons for things and matters. Same goes to this. The bad example to lend it to a friend is because they might not return it to you! An example, you lend your friend a sum of money he/she said that they needed it and they don't return the money to you. That's the bad point of lending 'things' to your friend. I haven't got to know of this type of people but I hope people don't misuse your friends by taking advantage of their kindness.
If there's a need that I have to lend my friend the things that she need, I must have my total trust in her that she won't lose it and she will return me the next day. I will only lend to people I am close to and those are the people who I trusted the MOST!
I think it's long enough luh. You people WRITE SO DAMN LONG!
I hope mine's enough!
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