Well, lending money to someone whom you trust or so called friend, is not a problem at all. To me, it is just a small, minor thing. It is not wrong to lend money to someone whom you trust especially he/she really needs it. He/she could pay it back in no time. In my opinion, lending something to someone is a very kind act. We need to give our helping hand wherever someone needs them. We must be generous, but not stingy. People will look upon us as kind and generous people if we at least do the best we can do and help them as much as we can. Lending money to someone is a very easy thing. This act could make people smile and build/gain trust with each other. Every people in this people surely are not alone from hardships and difficulties and they must definitely give a helping hand to each other when in need.
However, lending money money to a friend can be a big problem too. He/she could take granted/advantaged of you when you lend money to him/she too much. He/she could ask for more and more money from you. This could led to a row. This could break up the relationship between the two person. Not only that, this could led to a row and distrust begins to grow over the two person. He/she could be pain in the neck when the time comes. He/she could owe you more and more money when he/she did not repay you the debt he/she had borrowed from you.
So lesson learnt, lending money to a friend has it's advantages and disadvantages too. We must always know where to draw the line and its limitations. We should know when is the right time to lend money to a friend so our relationship with the person will not be affected.
PS: I did my Journal Writing 1 a day late. But at least I did it. Sorry! =)
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