Should I lend to my friend? Lending things to friends, depends on the situation. Maybe when there is a real need, I will lend something that can help him/her out. However, lending money to a person who don't really need it alot is actually harming them.
An example is like, there is a guy who appeared to borrow money from you to buy something that is not needed. After he know that you will lend him money, he will always come to you for money.
Being a generous person is easy, however, there will always be a point when you are unable to help out and you will be said to be unhelpful. Some people tend to rely on people who are generous and they will take it as a will for you to lend he/her your things or money.
However, if you are generous, you will always be the most welcomed person among the rest who are not as generous. Being a welcomed person of course is good, but do you all think that it was easy to be a generous person?
Before lending things to a friend / stranger, there is a few points/risks to consider. If the person is a friend of yours, of course he/she will be more trustable than anyone that is a total stranger to you. Lending something valuable to others are strongly discouraged as he/she will make spoil of it accidentally and you will waste all of your money that you had accumulated for it.
For myself, I will lend my things/money only to my close friends. =)
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