Should we lend to a friend? hmmm.. this topic has a lot of pointers. There are always two sides to an issue. A positive or a negative side.
Firstly, the kind of friends you have is an issue. Do you know the friends very well or just well or just met him/her? Do you know his/her character and what kind of person he/she was? If you know them well,I think you can trust them and you may proceed to next step or else,one answer-no lending.
Being kind and generous is a good moral value to have,but on the other side,being kind and generous will end up being used by friends of bad company.If you are in with a bad company,and then they ask you to shoplift something for them and they say that this is a kind of way to helping people too,but in the end,you will get into trouble because of them. The other bad thing is that for example,a friend always like to ask you for money and always give reasons like family poor and no money for repair or mum grounded him/her and no pocket money for a week and always kept asking you for money.And after for some days,it became a bad habit and they will just automatically ask you for money again and again.BUT...
this friend whom you always lend money to..never pays back your money.. WHAT SHOULD YOU DO? So,you now realised that you are being used by this friend as a money tree,but how do you tell him/her?
Ahas..you are stuck in that situation right? So the perfect solution for this is never to start lending money until you got the real reasons and be sure that he/she will pay you back the money before asking you for money again.
Next,you must have a sense of alert. Don't end up being push around by your friends or being treat like an ATM machine..haha..and withdraw money from you frequently.Be wise when choosing a friend. If he/she really needs your help,of course,definitely I will 100% help my friend. But if he/she kept on thinking that i will help him/her forever,making use of my kindness and generousity,sorry to tell say that: forget about your dream,i will never make that happen. wake up!!
yeah..and just be wise when choosing a friend and always know your limits.When it's time to stop lending help to a friend,you should stop.But for good friends,you can just 100% trust him/her as you know that she won't make use of you to gain what she/he wants..
yup..and i guess it's alreadi exceeding 200 words right? i believe so.. and i shall end here now..goodbye :D
~the end~
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